Girl with cock... so feminine...

Look what baby's got for you...

It is a common assumption that when a woman is fucking a man, he is "submitting", that he's being her bitch. The whole Dom and Sub thing.
I guess that's why those who felt uncomfortable with that idea came up with the term "power bottom."

Does it matter? Is it even relevant to anyone who's not one of the two people fucking or getting fucked?

Should I stop and think, hm... am I "submitting" to her when she pushes me down onto my face and fucks my ass?  Would I feel better if I consider myself a "power bottom"?

Does "power bottom" mean I'm allowing her to fuck me rather than "submitting" to her?
Does that make our fucking more equitable somehow, more of a politically acceptable act? And most of all, do we care?