When she gets real deep down his throat, he feels her tense and groan, the tide rising, the strong scent of her wetness.
She loves to make him gag and struggle, deep throating him. It's a powerful sense of freedom, her cock fucking his mouth and throat. What's not to love? She leans forward and gets right over him open mouth, slamming.
She cums hard and gushes around her strap, the cum running down his cheeks and along her cock and into his mouth. Her cum tastes strong, salty. He cums with a sudden spasm.
He turns around and begs for a good fucking. She teases him with the head of her hard-on, slowly working the head into his tight ass, sliding in deep and loving.
All her life she'd known something in her wasn't being fulfilled. Guys grunting as they fucked her pussy and once in a while her ass. It all felt distant and kind of disappointing. This is what all the fuss was about?
It took a while to get over her fear of fucking her guy. She didn't even know why it scared her. Maybe just admitting this part of her existed, needed to live. Once they got there they fell in love in a whole new way, moving toward a real life, not living behind glass. They fucked their way around the entire sphere of what's truly in their hearts, 360 Degree Love...
I got persmission to post a little intro from a M/F couple of my acquaintance and how they got to Pegging Land. It's a bit of a rough draft but I think it gets the message across.
"My wife had lived a pretty vanilla life till we met almost 4 years ago.
Our early sex was a bit kinked, which was a nice first step, but there
was something missing for her. She couldn't name it but her alpha type
nature was being frustrated. We seesawed back and forth about pegging.
She wasn't sure and it caused some arguments.
I'd been a pegging
aficionado for a long time so I through oh, fuck this, and went over there with a strap-on one afternoon and things just fell into place.
She tried it on and walked around, kind of grinning at her big cock and looking so lusciously hot in her lacy bra and garter. First time there wasn't any long drawn out foreplay. I just pushed her
onto her back and sat on her. Took about 5 seconds for her to take
charge. She wanted me turned around, to get a good look at her cock
fucking me. She grabbed onto my hips and dictated the rhythm, pulling me
down onto all of her big cock harder and harder.
It made her kind of
nuts, telling me the strap was pushing onto her clit every time she
pulled me down all the way. We were slamming away when I felt her
convulse and let out a wild JEEZUS-FUCKIN-CHRIST-I'M-COMING-ROCKETS! type
shriek.
It was all over in 10 minutes or so. You know how that is, all that
sexual tension and frustration built up, you both blow your load in no
time then go for slower, more evolved seconds.
That hot fucking changed everything in our relationship. She got to
express her maleness and I my femaleness without any judgement. And
truth be told, the fact we're in love makes the whole experience so hot
you want to just melt.
So yes, there are men in the world whose preference is being fucked by a
woman and there are women in the world that get off like nothing else on fucking their
guy.
Actually, my wife told me that if she had to choose fucking or being
fucked, being the fucker wins hands down.
In public we appear conventional, playing our male and female roles.
It's easier that way."
All that pegs well ends well...
For couples who want to explore further, there are some fun toys and
devices. One of my faves is a long stainless steel asshook with a ball on
the end and a ring where you can attach a scarlet cord. While the guy is sucking his
girl's cock, she can control his rhythm by pulling on the cord that
runs up his back.To take things to another level, there's something called
sounding, those stainless steel devices that insert into a man's
urethra.
Plenty of women love fucking their guy after putting a sounder down his
cock hole, in total control of his body. The level of intimacy is so
intense it's a revelation. If you're into adventure, definitely worth a try.
There's this idea that a man who enjoys being sodomized by his female partner is just avoiding the fact he's actually gay and having a woman fuck him allows him to maintain separation from defining himself as gay.
Sure, that's possible. But let's look at it as something specific. Being sodomized by a woman wearing a strap-on can be a desire on its own. She isn't filling in for real cock. He doesn't want her fucking him because he's "afraid" to admit to himself he is in fact gay. He wants her fucking him because it's her fucking him.
So what about being in love? An act of love. It turns their fucking into something else entirely, an expression of value. How she wouldn't stick her cock in another guy because she and her man are bound by love.
And really, love - being in love is the most powerful aphrodisiac.
Think about it. How different is it when you're deeply in love with him or her? How much stronger does it all feel? Physically, emotionally, it's a kind of pure liberation. You are both free to show your most intimate selves to one another, without fear of judgement. So yeah, there's nothing hotter than the love fuck.
But if it's not an exclusive relationship that doesn't mean there isn't emotional depth. Sure, you can say it's just a piece of rubber or latex that's strapped to her body.
But it's more. A woman I know said she feels a sense of power and responsibility when she looks down at her cock deep inside her man. She's trembles with pleasure. A leash is wrapped around her cock, the steel against his ass every time she slides all the way in, stretching him, opening him up.
The sight of that, his surrender, his begging for all of her inside him, it can be more than "play." It can be real meaning. It can be an act that gives each of them more of each other and more of themselves. They go round the entire 360 degrees of identity.
When he sucks her cock, you can again say, sure, it's just a fake cock in his mouth, down his throat. So why does she feel it so deeply, why does it make her gush and cum so easily?
Perhaps it's because the act shows them both they are free to give and receive from one another, to move beyond expectations and into real desire. In other words, he looks so fucking beautiful to her eyes when he's going down on her as she strokes his face, his neck, heat rising in her when she hears him gag on her cock, getting her off in waves of luscious heat.
So they aren't static or easily defined. They're moving, they're exploring and they're headed into the land of big heat.
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| How deep is deep? |
This is
when an object is inserted in a man's urethra. Yeah, his cock hole. It's
a fairly popular fetish judging from the number and various styles of "sounders" available.
If you're thinking of trying this, obviously
you'll need to be careful. It's very easy to scratch the very delicate
tissue in the urethra and cause some bleeding and pain.
Some couples say they get a lot of pleasure from doing it together and it's erotic as hell. The first time a guy feels the sounder slowly
sliding deeper is a revelation. Try it and you'll see what I mean.
The
ideal situation is when the woman can smoothly insert the sounder
before fucking her guy. There are hollow sounders that allow the guy to
cum without removing the device. Some women say they derive a great deal
of satisfaction by being in total control of their guy's cock and his
ass, all of him in her hands.
And that's really about
the most powerful of aphrodisiacs - trust. The union of his trust and
her power can help address a fundamental gender imbalance.
Our
friends at The Stockroom have a good selection of various sounders,
both solid and hollow. Just be careful, take your time and sounding can
add a whole new dimension to your intimacy.
Review: How's the Feeldoe feel?
There's been a lot of debate about the Feeldoe, the strapless strap-on. The idea is the woman puts the egg shaped end inside her and her pussy hangs onto it while having fun with her guy or girl.
It's a great idea but there have been a lot of buts (yes, pun intended).
A woman would need to have powerhouse Kegels for her pussy to maintain a grip on this thing if getting down to even mildly active action.
But all is not lost. It's still a great toy if you use a strap that accommodates that egg-shaped end. Okay, it's no longer a strapless strap-on but if a woman wants some penetration while penetrating, the Feeldoe definitely does the trick. It also comes with a mini-vibrator insert if you want some extra stims.
But there is the school of thought that insists they don't want anything in them while they're driving. Some say it's distracting, too much going on.
Overall, the Feeldoe has gotten some 5-star reviews from early adapters and newbies alike and many now swear by it. There's only one way to know your own preference. Take the Feeldoe for a spin. Not that pricey considering it's such a great way to expand your horizons!
"He took his sweet time drawing shapes on me with my black eyeliner pencil. He then took a silver snake from around his neck and laid it across my hip and down the slit of my low mileage pussy. He told me not to move, not at all. I felt feverish and began to drip..."
Medusa is a creature from Greek mythology that would turn men to stone the moment they looked at her. She was said to be monstrous, her hair a tangle of hissing snakes.
Perseus slayed Medusa by using a polished shield as a mirror to strike his decapitating blow. Hence the famous image of Perseus holding up the head of Medusa.
In some ancient tellings, Medusa was a beautiful maiden who was made monstrous after being raped by sea god Poseidon within the goddess Athena's temple.
There can be freedom for all. Don't fear freedom. She'll make you more of a man as she becomes more of a woman, the two of you more complete. Hanging onto your fear, defining it as truth, that won't help you in the end. If love is trust, and trust is freedom, you are free to let go of your fear.
