You are each other's strength

Someone asked what 360 degree love is. It means a male/female couple doing it all.

Communicating. They tell each other what they find hot and what they want to do. Just because she whips his ass and fucks him hard, that's no reason he can't slam her pussy, fuck her mouth, jerk off while she sucks his balls.

It means neither needs to be consistently submissive or dominant, that both can experiment and experience without worrying about whether it will work or not. Who cares? Just try it.

And pushing things beyond certain pain thresholds... There's something to be said for that. You discover your own and each other's limits and maybe push those limits further and further. Besides, a good asswhipping, followed by a hot ass fucking is such a great way to relieve stress, anxiety, panic attacks and all those other annoying life hassles that wear you both down.

The main thing to remember is you're in this together. You are each other's strength. And you know what? The rest of the world has no place in your privacy. They can all go fuck themselves. None of that is your problem. You're too busy making each other deeper, hotter and more willing.

Our favorite anal hook and it's special little trick means giving her a +++ blow job!

Who doesn't like anal hooks? What's not to like about them?

After checking out a wide variety of hooks, our team of six "testers" agreed that the TAIL GATER is the champ.

Aside from being made of medical-grade stainless steel and using a hook angle that snuggly fits pretty much any bottom, there is the little trick designers used to make the Tail Gater the winner.

Look at the photo. Near the bottom, just where the hook turns up, there is a small ring. It's a genius bit of design.

 Anal hooks look great but one of the practical problems that many users have complained about is that the ball on the end tends to slide around and sometimes even slip right out. Boo!

So the Tail Gater's  designers added the little ring you see at the bottom. This allows a cord to be used to secure the hook in place so it won't go anywhere. Great idea! And a little more tying up and binding is always welcome too!

Having rings at the top of the anal hook and at the bottom allows for a wide variety of possibilities. For example, a cord can go through the bottom ring to bind the guy's cock and balls and then continue up to meet the cord that comes from the ring at the top of the anal hook, then wraps around his neck and both cords are finally gathered in the fist of the girl so she can control his movement while he gives her a blow job.

Now she would have SERIOUS control of him while he goes down on her hard cock.

The Tail Gater is also on sale right now so if you've got a itch that only an anal hook can scratch, this is the one!

Is there a "normal" pegging position?

A funny question is what's the "normal" position when a woman sodomizes her man. Is it the standard her between his legs? Or since it's ass fucking, how about her behind him? Then there's him on top, straddling her or sitting in her lap.

The sitting in her lap position, if done right, can also allow her to suck his cock while penetrating him. Sure, his cock size has something to do with it but also needs a sense of rhythm and movement.

If the dildo has a head, like a real cock, it can be super stimulating for the guy to balance on the head, stretched open while she sucks his cock. It requires he have some discipline since the urge is to just slide down all the way down onto her cock and feel it stroke his prostate.

One variation on the doggie style is him on his knees, a leash around his neck as she stands behind him, her cock kind of hooking him. If she pulls upward, that stretches him length wise and her hand yanking down on the leash keeps him from being able to rise enough to get himself off her cock.

Of course she can just tie him up, immobilize him and then do whatever the hell she wants. Even getting into double penetration. For a tight ass that can be pretty daunting, stretched open so much. But in time that can become irresistible. Like they say, how to you get to Carnegie Hall?

Then we have the stainless steel hook with a cord attached to the end. It's a great way to control him giving her a blow job. I think it's been mentioned before in this blog, probably because it's such a favorite. She gets that ball on the end of the hook into him, runs the cord up his back, wraps it around his neck once and then wraps it round her fist. This way she can control his movement while he's going down her. Just when he begins to gag and can't take any more cock, she can yank on the cord and drive her hardon all the way into his throat, gagging or no gagging.

Be prepared for possible vomiting at this point. Which is why it's a good idea for the guy not to eat beforehand. Women into pegging have said it's all worth it because there's very little that looks as hot as seeing all of their big cock jammed down the guy's throat, every last bit of it.

Women have said they cum rockets just seeing him struggle and panic, face jammed full of her cock, his lips against her strap and unable to pull off, the cord choking him, the stainless steel hook straining at his ass.

It really is one helluva gift they both can cherish.

Pegging and the law

Don't you just love this sign? Or how about signs advising of a place being a "Pegging Free Zone."

After all, you could be breaking the law in some locales. Texas has arcane laws like not being allowed to own more than 6 dildos.

And don't get caught trying to enter Thailand with a dildo. You could be barred, or humiliated in the airport line up where officers have been known to wave around the offending object while berating the owner.

In Saudi Arabia, sex toys are deemed a moral perversion and deeply offensive in that a woman could ever consider a dildo as a replacement for a man's cock. How dare she!

But don't you get the feeling all this condemnation is one of those "doth protest too much" scenarios? Who exactly are these types of laws and customs protecting? Religious texts consider all forms of sodomy to be an abomination, an unnatural act. The city of Sodom got trashed by God because its inhabitants had a special affection for the act.

And I have to believe that whoever supports such laws must be even the tiniest bit curious. Wouldn't they ask themselves, What's all the fuss about? Hmmm...

I guess it's the Fun Factor. So much in this control freak world is instantly deemed a crime when it involves widespread fun and enjoyment.



 



 

She asked if he's gay and messed things up. What would you do?

I recently read a post about a woman who didn't handle her guy's initial effort to tell her that he's into pegging. She asked him if he was gay. Oops. Okay, maybe she's completely new to the idea but still, not a smart move. Now she regrets her reaction and is trying to bring him back around to let her try.

But he's clammed up, won't talk about it, told her it's okay, no need bla bla and maybe they need a break from sex.
But... they've been going out for less than 6 months.

In a relationship that new, saying maybe a break from sex would be a good idea, well... let's face it, that's not good. In fact, it's most likely a way of saying "it's over."

The woman who wrote the post is full of grief now, begging for answers, how to deal with this, how to save the relationship. It's a tough one. Maybe the guy is gay. Maybe not. Maybe he's just not into revealing that part of himself to her. It seems trust was broken when she mishandled things at the beginning.

What would you do if you were her? Would you accept what seems to be the inevitable? Would you keep trying? Should the guy give her another chance?

How To Fuck Your Psychiatrist

And here's a pegging excerpt from a novel you may be interested in. It's available in ebook or print. Or click on the cover pic. 
Enjoy...

SLIDE

Ren’s on her back, has me by the cock like a stick shift. She tries to coax me onto her purple strap-on. It’s the L shaped kind. The short part’s a bit curved and hooks under her pubic bone, a real G-spot stroker. Her smile glows, eyes full of brilliant mischief.

“C’mon, baby,” she teases, so honeyed. “Slide...”

“I was supposed to do this with my doctor’s assistant.”

“Let her get in line,” Ren says, earthy and sweet, keeping at it as I feel her cock push and lift me very slow. She pokes and prods, gets me poised on the head. “You’re so tight.”

The scent of her pussy’s salt rises strong. I can taste her. “Kegels,” I say.

Her smile is hungry, luscious. “I love fucking my girl.”

“I’m your girl?”

“Right now you are.”

“And you’re my boy?”

“Right now I am.”

Her voice alone is gonna make me cum. I twist on her cock as she raises her hips into my rhythm. I feel the head spread me open, come in. Ren draws me downward. “Ow... fuck,” I frown and chuckle. “It kinda hurts.”

Ren takes a deep breath, swallows hard. “Oooof, I’m gonna piss myself. You always look so good impaled on me.”

She sits up and takes me by the hips, by the ass, fills me further, patient and strong. All my weight drives me onto her. She takes my breast in her mouth, rocks me in the cradle of her lap. My eyes pop. “Jesus… You’re really fucking the shit out of me.”
I feel between us, always astounded. “Man, that’s a lotta cock.”

She digs her power, rolls it on her tongue, has me skewered, the pressure is a burning ache. Her hands are full of my ass, finger tips at my asshole pulling me further open. My cock throbs against her stomach as I grab handfuls of her hair, side of her face on my chest, she murmurs encouragement while rocking us. The final run hits and everything is everything. This is what trust is for. I clench onto her. She jacks me off.

“You’re there,” Ren moors me. “That’s it. You’re pulling against my g-spot every time I bring you deep. Yeah, like that...” She uses our rhythm on herself.

“It’s close,” I strain. “My balls are gonna… fucking… uh...” A long belly laugh finally breaks from my throat and pours all over us. I’m never sure I can cum till I’m cumming. My guts grip and contract, molten melted eruption of sugar heat between us.

Ren lifts herself forward and all in one deft motion, spreads her legs and gets me on my back like somekinda fuck judo. I’m still gasping as she pushes my knees up. She slams, determined, cock pounds against her own fiery nerve.

“Wait wait,” I struggle. “Lemme—”

“Shut up a minute.”

I’m weak from cumming so hard, her weight makes my spread out hips ache. She sits up, my ass now just a tight hole to leverage her cock’s pressure on her spot. She grabs my hard-on, uses it pull me onto her. I’m post cum touchy. It’s too much, try to get her hands off me.

“Hang on a second. Don’t─”

Ren doesn’t listen, sweaty and irritated, bangin the ass off me, her claws in my shoulder so I don’t slip away. I think about pushing her off but let her go and go.

“Hurry up, you’re hurting me─like for real.” My asshole scalds with her pounding friction. Shoulda used more oil.

She seethes and bitches. “Do something. Make me cum for fucksakes.”

I lock my ankles around her ass, lift myself up to her and her body finally stiffens, pussy gushing around her cock. Her cum runs down all over my ass, into my ass, trickles to my tailbone. She laughs and hoots, legs and body stretched taut. I finally shove her downward and get her out of me...

Girl with cock... so feminine...

Look what baby's got for you...

It is a common assumption that when a woman is fucking a man, he is "submitting", that he's being her bitch. The whole Dom and Sub thing.
I guess that's why those who felt uncomfortable with that idea came up with the term "power bottom."

Does it matter? Is it even relevant to anyone who's not one of the two people fucking or getting fucked?

Should I stop and think, hm... am I "submitting" to her when she pushes me down onto my face and fucks my ass?  Would I feel better if I consider myself a "power bottom"?

Does "power bottom" mean I'm allowing her to fuck me rather than "submitting" to her?
Does that make our fucking more equitable somehow, more of a politically acceptable act? And most of all, do we care?